Constipation

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Since before beranak last year sampai skrang, hari ni first time aku kena constipation. Kalo dah kena, memang scaryyyy okay. I will spend 15-20 minutes just in the loo. Skrang...sila imagine muka aku mcm mamat ni eehhh.

Aku teringat lagi waktu aku pregnant last year. Masa tu 3 hari je lagi nak due date. Constipation ni memang common lah kan bagi yang mengandung so tak terkecuali kena kat aku. Aku memang lah cuak habis nak teran sbb takut terberanak kat dalam toilet.

Masa tu aku tpikir, kalo nak teran taik pun dah nak half dead, cemana aku nak teran time deliver nanti..but seriously...dalam labour room memang mommies bertarung nyawa nak keluarkan bb.

Tiap kali nak berak mesti suruh mak aku (mrhb outstation time tu) temankan tapi dia kat luar pintu je la (ape kejadah bawak mak masok toilet)...Dalam satu hari tu aku rasa dah masok toilet 2o kali kot sebab aku bajet teran, kalo aku teran laju2 kang terberanak pulak.

Mak aku pun seriau jugak tgk aku yang dok kluar masok toilet. My mom helps me a lot during that time. Thanks mom....i luv u so muchhhhh....tiba2 rindu...sob...sob..:( and miss those preggy days....planning to have 1 more soon...(cross finger)...wish me luck...

p/s: Now its the 4th time i'm going to the loo...babai ..nak gi sesi meneran (iewww)

Tegal kau ehh..

Malam tadik, off we (me, hb, bb n my niece) went to McD kat Jalan TAR sebab masing2 ngidam mok makan burger prosperity. Punyalah lamak kmk org carik parking kat sia, aku rasa ada dalam 3-4 kali round masih juak sikda parking. Mr hb malas nak pusing agik so nya parking ajak kat line kuning dpn McD ya sebab byk juak keta parking kat sia.

Nang sikda rezeki kmk org juak kali time ya sebab burger ya dah abis dijual.

Mr hb insist juak nak makan burger ya, so aku suggest la pg McD kat 3rd Mile nun. Baruk jak kmk org nak melangkah kluar dari McD ya, damnnnn....ketaku kenak saman. Sik sempat gik dah nak merayu kat polis ya sebab dah ditulisnya kertas saman.

Dengan selamba polis ya berik kertas saman ngn kmk org tanpa belas kasihan nanggar aku yang menyorong anakku yang sedang tdo dalam stroller ya. But it still our fault becoz purposely parked on the yellow line.

Damn u policeman...(no offence okay)

Mun sik tegal ko McD, sik ku kenak saman RM30 tapi apakan daya disebabkan burger ko yang nyaman, aku rela hati mbyr saman ya. The whole way nak pg McD 3rd Mile nun, mr hb keep on cursing polis ya...ney gaya nak molah nak, dah kerja nya.

Nasib la kat 3rd Mile burger ya masih available, puas juak hati makan walaupun dah kenak saman. Dengan gumbiranya kmk org enjoying the burger walaupun deep inside our heart masih nyumpah lelaki beruniform biru ya tek. hehehe

Bb Aqeel with his Baby Bites while we were enjoying our foods.

I was seduced by the spicy crispy tender chicken, sik jadi beli Prosperity burger

Five Ways to Find "Couple" Time

While you're showering so much love on your little one, don't forget the other VIP in your life — your partner. Nourishing that relationship is just as important as nurturing your baby (after all, your baby will grow up and leave the nest but your partner is yours for life), so make an effort to stay connected.

However, it's one thing to say, and another thing to do, especially when there are so many diapers and bottles and loads of laundry begging for your attention. So just how do you make sure your relationship with your partner doesn't fall by the wayside? The answer is quality time, not quantity, when it comes to connecting with your mate.

•Grab at least a few minutes together every day. An early morning cup of coffee or a late dinner (after your baby is down for the night) will give you a chance to catch up on what's up.

•Show affection freely and often. Kiss when you come in, hug when you leave. Stolen moments of intimacy — like sneaking a deep kiss as you pass in the hallway — will help you feel connected despite a hundred distractions (plus, it's totally hot).

•Shoot for some regular "together time." Schedule a weekly sitter (or maybe switch off on childcare duty with a like-minded couple) and head out for dinner, a movie, or even a drive to nowhere — sans baby. Can't leave the nest? Plan a film fest at home. Rent some flicks, order in, and snuggle on the couch. (Try not to fold laundry tonight — it'll definitely ruin the mood.)

•Let your husband, not your baby, be the center of the universe for a while. Unless there's a safety issue, your little one can wait a minute while you finish speaking with (or kissing) your spouse. Your child will not only learn to be patient, but he'll see that you respect and love his daddy.

•Remember, communication is a major step toward intimacy. If you're feeling lonely, undesirable, resentful, or anything else, talk about it with your spouse before your emotions snowball into a big icy boulder sitting between you.

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Makan 20

Esok Christmas...program nak ngabang kolik sik dapat diteruskan sebab masih dalam hari berkabong permergian nenda Mr hb. So malam esok, ada makan 20 kat Kampung Panglima Seman. Macam biasalah, ada sembahyang berjemaah, ada makan2 sikit. Sapa2 bloggers dari Kampung ya atau kenal ngn aku, jemputlah ke rumah. Jangan segan silu, kedatangan ktk org dialu2kan. Ari tok, kmk org balit awal kol 4.30pm, jadi aku nak ngabis keja ku lok. Later uoll..dadaaaa

Makan Nujuh

Hari Jemat duhal ari tok, sik berasa dah 7 hari orang ninggal nenek dah pegi. Dalam seminggu tok juak lah aku kuang kuit ke Kampung Panglima Seman berjemaah disia, gago nulong daknya bermasak apa indah. Pulang keja 5.30, terus gi kpg pakei jeraya Kampung Bintawa ya, dalam 15-20 minutes dah sampei kpg Panglima Seman. Cuba mun makei jeraya Satok nun, alu bertaik mata dudok atok2 dalam keta kotan stuck dalam jam.

Tapi sigek la aku gelik makei jeraya kpg Bintawa ya, arum bulak dapat sebuah keta jak dapat lalu lane ya (sapa2 biak kpg bintawa baca blog tok, no offence ok). Mun ada keta parking tepi, terpaksa la berik laluan ngn keta depan limpas dolok. Mun masing2 sik mok ngalah alu jammed di sia ajak.

Malam tok makan nujuh, aku nyeruk sapa2 readers blog aku tok, sudi2 kanlah bertandang ke rumah untuk meramie kan agik jemaah malam tok. Insyallah, semoga kita semua masing2 mendapat barakah dariNYA.

Jom baca

***Al-Fatihah***

Belasungkawa

Al-Fatihah kepada Allahyarhamah Hajah Habsah Binti Mahmud iaitu nenda kepada mr HB yang telah kembali ke rahmatullah pada hari Jumaat yang lepas. Semoga roh beliau dicucuri rahmat dan ditempatkan bersama2 golongan yang beriman. Amin.